Real Talk

Real Talk:

Why is it that folks like to use Facebook as a open forum to try and publicly humiliate someone they are upset with? This is very immature and it speaks volumes about the characters of those involved. If you are the person who starts the confrontation by calling somebody out (especially if you use their real name) then you are the worst one, searching for a audience because we all know that all the people on our friends list are not your close circle of friends who you would look to to share your feelings and get advice. You are trying to make this person you are mad at angry, but if you have to do all this to make them mad, then obviously they don’t care enough about you because if they did it wouldn’t take a public name-calling session to get their attention.

To the person being called out, do yourself a favor and don’t respond to these rants. The way I see it anyone who would rather demean my character on Facebook was never a friend or lover and they aren’t worth my time. When you respond you are making yourself look just as bad as the person who started the mess. So please folks, think before you act because every action has a equal and opposite reaction.

New Year

Its a New Year! I have been contemplating what my goals are going to be this year and it is already February and I still haven't finished adding to this list. I realize I have a lot to get done and not much time to do it! Time is so relative. Like Einstein's theory of relativity: If you touch a hot pan a second feels like an hour but an hour with your significant other can feel like a second. When we are young we envision the life we want but it never ever crosses your mind that it just won't work out that way, or at least not as perfectly as you may have envisioned it in your mind! Time presents challenges and the act of living presents obstacles, but its these obstacles that makes us stronger. People who have never had to battle any obstacles crumble under pressure. Our current recession is a great example. People have already begun committing suicide because they lost that job with the six figure salary. Now that does suck but I don't recommend jumping off no cliffs! So I have gone back to my childhood to remember that life I envisioned for myself and now its time for a new chapter.